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آخر تحديث:  الخميس، 20 يناير/ كانون الثاني، 2011، 17:47 GMT

Hello and welcome to BBC Xtra English!

Today Alice and pres talk about a controversial new book on the subject of parenting.

Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother is a book by Yale University professor Amy Chua.

She describes how strict she is with her children and how a strict upbringing is, in her own opinion, a good thing.

In her book she gives examples of how she instils discipline in her daughter.

In one chapter, Dr Chua tells her daughter that she will give her favourite toys away to charity if she does not master a complicated piece on the piano.

Whilst this might appear to be rather harsh for some parents, Dr Chua believes that this encourages success amongst children.

She argues that sometimes western mothers encourage mediocrity or praise children even if they underachieve because they are scared of destroying their self-esteem.

Alice and pres also talked about a proposal from a British MP to get funding for early intervention.

Early intervention is when social services get involved with problem families early on.

The Labour MP Graham Allen says that teaching parenting skills will help strengthen families and save the state a lot of money in the future because children who are well brought up will have more successful futures and will not rely on the state for help.

What are your parenting techniques? Do you agree with early intervention? Write to us in English!
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prog

prog

.لاستخدام هذا الملف لابد من تشغيل برنامج النصوص "جافا"، وأحدث الإصدارات من برنامج "فلاش بلاير"

يمكن التشغيل باستخدام برنامج "ريال بلاير"، أو "ويندوز ميديا بلاير"


Battle Hymn
ترنيمة المعركة
Tiger mother
أم النمر
Strict
صارم
Upbringing
تنشئة
Instils
يغرس
Master
يبرع في أمر ما
Complicated
معقد
Harsh
قاس
Mediocrity
قدرة متوسطة في مجال ما
Underachieve
فشل في تحقيق المطلوب
Self-esteem
احترام الذات
MP
عضو برلمان
Funding
تمويل
Early intervention
التدخل المبكر
Social services
الخدمات الإجتماعية
Strengthen
يقوي/ يعزز
Parenting techniques
أساليب التربية من قبل الوالدين

words

words

.لاستخدام هذا الملف لابد من تشغيل برنامج النصوص "جافا"، وأحدث الإصدارات من برنامج "فلاش بلاير"

يمكن التشغيل باستخدام برنامج "ريال بلاير"، أو "ويندوز ميديا بلاير"

I really would use the rule of ''firm but fair'' in raising my children, I think making children follow specific rules will help them in their future life, but at the same time never limiting their choices. Furthermore, early intervention would be a so helpful and successful step.
Mohammed Jaber

I think improve self esteem children's is good way for upbringing but there are some children must be under monitoring.
Ahmed Gouda, Bahrain

Family is kernel in any society. Sometime not very time to be strict with your children good,but we should deal with our childrens as friends .we have to teach our childrens the discipline ,punctualand help then in their school .the family has responsibility to couraging their childrens to be good in the future ,and also exolain to the them about the bad habitsin the society like, drugs and smoking, child abuse that will help the to be aware about those issues in the society.
Mohsen, Khan Younis

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