Girls still seen as homemakers - Girls' Schools Association head

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Girls are still being brought up to believe that raising children is more important than their own ambitions, the president of the Girls' Schools Association has said.

They should be told that they have freedom to make different choices if they want to, says Hilary French.

Despite women's educational achievements, they are still expected to be the homemaker, she says.

Women are now more likely than men to go to university in the UK.

Mrs French, who is also the headmistress of Central Newcastle High School, told the Press Association news agency the school sometimes invited business leaders and entrepreneurs in to talk to students.

"One of the young entrepreneurs, a lady, dared to say that she had probably put her business ahead of her son, and the sharp intake of breath from all of the girls was audible," she said.

"They were all absolutely shocked, so yes, we are still creating a generation of girls who think that the whole idea of looking after children is really the most important thing, once you have a child."

The GSA leader said that was an issue for ethical and moral debate - and a very personal decision.

"But, what's maybe less personal, and maybe more incumbent on us as leaders in girls' schools, is to try and get girls to see that it is a decision, and that there are options, and that it's not wrong, and that's where society needs to come into play as well," she said.

"It's not wrong to make a particular decision, whatever it is."

'Caring men'

Mrs French added that it was "probably still the assumption" that women would deal with childcare.

"We do still expect women to be at the core of the relationship, the homemaker, the person who brings up children and thinks about what everyone's going to eat every day. It's still, I think, unusual to find a man doing that."

However, Mrs French said she was also "quite struck" that today's young men were "very caring and do want to have children and do have an affinity with children".

Commenting on planned changes to England's exams system, Mrs French said she supported the principles of the plans "to make the system more rigorous and fit for purpose".

But she raised concerns about the idea of scrapping GCSEs in core academic subjects and replacing them with new English Baccalaureate Certificates (EBCs).

EBCs in English, maths and science are due to be introduced in autumn 2015, with the first exams being taken in 2017. EBCs in history, geography and foreign languages are due to be brought in later.

Mrs French said EBCs could "make a failing system more complicated and possibly more prone to absolute collapse in the end".


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    Comment number 125.

    my wife is a homemaker and she is the most important person in our house , we would be lost without her . raising children is the most labour intensive job in the world and the most vital , not something to be sneered at

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    Comment number 75.

    Girls, will always be seen as homemakers, possibly due to the fact that sexism and mysoginy still reigns supreme even in the 21st century..

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    Comment number 72.

    Forgive me, but why can raising children not itself BE an ambition? Is making you, me, or any of us somehow a second-rate past time? Was raising us a waste of time?
    There is no better than the joys of raising children, parenthood and keeping a home.
    Most people don't love their jobs (or boss) but most parents adore their children. So why is work held up as so amazing?
    Please, think again.

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    Comment number 67.

    I'm a stay at home dad. I left work to go to university and finished around the time our 2nd child was born, my partner enjoys her job and earns more than I can. We decided that I would stay home for a while as child care would cost about as much as I could earn.

    People think its strange that I stay home while she works and comment on it a lot, sometimes mocking. Men can do the job too you know!

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    Comment number 65.

    Why would anyone who chooses to have a child NOT think that looking after them is the most important thing they can do?

    It doesn't worry me if girls "still" think that caring for children is more important than a career. What worries me is that it still seems to be so overlooked that fathers can take on the homemaker role instead.


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