Going around the world with kids
Donât assume that children are a barrier to intrepid travel; they are surprisingly tough and thrive on adventure. (Judy Bellah/LPI)
Fed up with the stresses and strains of a working life in London that left little time to spend with our two boys (then ages 6 and 3), my partner and I decided to do the modern equivalent of running away to join the circus: we rented out the apartment and took the kids travelling around the world for a couple of years.
We had little idea of how we would cope, whether we could provide an education for the children, and if three months later we would be home, shamefaced, saying "Oh, it just didn't work out". Here we are, though, a year and a quarter later having crossed Borneo, Indonesia, Thailand and Laos, and having had the adventures of a lifetime along the way.
If you are thinking of a similar adventure, here are a few of the lessons we have learned:
Kids and travel do mix
Do not assume that children are a barrier to intrepid travel; they are surprisingly tough and thrive on adventure. Our lives are richer for having stayed in a tribal longhouse in Sarawak, Borneo, spotted orangutans in the majestic rainforests of Malaysia, and cycled through the tranquil villages of Laos. The kids are always first to make people smile, and if they are too young to walk far you can often "cheat" by hiring transport to villages close to the road.
Do not set too hectic of a pace
Small children tire quickly when things become monotonous and need to be able to spend a good deal of time just playing. If you have been moving around a lot, stop somewhere nice and give your family a chance to recharge batteries and make friends. It is amazing how quickly a place feels like home.
Take proper precautions with your family's health
Take out insurance, plan your vaccinations in good time and find out how to keep your family safe before you go. But do not be paranoid: our children have both been healthier than they ever were in London.
Beware the buses
Travel in the developing world often involves appallingly long, uncomfortable bus journeys with speed-freak drivers, doubtful safety standards and air-conditioning that is permanently set to high. We keep spare clothes and sick bags (as well as games and books) in the hand luggage, but when we can, we take the train, boat or plane instead.
Keep yourselves sane
They may be the apples of your eye, but caring for children 24/7 while experiencing the ups and downs of long-term travel can be tiring and stressful. When the opportunity arises, we hire childcare and take a romantic evening out together, or we take it in turns to head off and indulge in more individual pursuits, such as diving or climbing.
Educating on the road
You will need to give your kids an education, of course. We have had to discipline ourselves to set aside a few hours every weekday for some one-on-one home schooling. It has not always been easy - the boys would much rather be off grubbing around in the dirt chasing small creatures - but we generally win them over by adapting exercises to their interests and making use of our surroundings in the lessons.
Take a laptop
Apart from its important roles as cinema, games console and Skype-with-the-relatives hub, a computer has been a vital tool for our home schooling. We can access educational resources and conduct research wherever there is wi-fi.
It is a cliché, of course, but travelling itself is the best education. Rather than just heading to the beach, seek out interesting and unusual experiences to maximise the value of your trip. Our boys have wandered reef, forest and mountain; hung out with some startlingly different cultures; explored ancient temples and exotic markets; and seen crocodiles, hornbills, orangutans and many more creatures - in the wild, not in a zoo. Experiences like those cannot be had at school.