The love letters returned after 70 years thanks to Facebook romantics

By Dhruti Shah
BBC News

image copyrightNorma Beasley
image captionBob and Norma Beasley wrote many letters to each other during their courtship but the missives ended up in the hands of strangers

A shoebox full of love letters between a courting couple has finally been returned home after 70 years thanks to well-wishers on Facebook, a stranger with a penchant for romance and a daughter wishing to fulfil her mother's wishes.

When Kim Rowe was sorting through her attic recently, she rediscovered the letters sent in 1948 and 1949 between a Norma Hall in Kent and a Bob Beasley in the British Army overseas.

Her mother had taken the letters 20 years previously when a neighbour in Aldershot, who had discovered them in her attic, told her she was planning to throw them in the bin.

"My mother - Cherry Vallance - took a look at the box and realised they were somebody's love letters and so she could not bear for them to be dumped."

Cherry even took the letters with her when her family moved to Somerset. She never got the opportunity to find Norma and Bob before her death in 2016. But when Kim came across the letters again this year, she felt it was important to find the couple and return the memories to them before it was too late.

image captionBob Beasley sent Norma letters during their courtship in the 1940s which were lost for decades until this year

She told the BBC: "I only read two of the letters for information purposes but not the rest as I feel they are private to the couple. Bob obviously loved Norma very much and I assume it was Norma who kept the letters."

Kim posted a picture of the envelopes on Facebook telling friends the only clues she had: "As you can see, Bob was in the forces and Norma lived in Kent. The postmarks are 1948 and 1949. Facebook please do your stuff".

She had no inkling that her call for help would lead to 11,000 shares and 1,500 reactions but most importantly an address and, subsequently a new pen-pal friend coming into her life.

One of Kim's friends on Facebook did some digging and told her the couple appeared to have got married in 1951 in Uxbridge.

"His name is Howard R Beasley. So maybe a Robert. So lovely to find these letters and know they actually did marry," was posted under Kim's original request.

Kim sent a letter to the address hoping it was the right family, telling the couple she had ownership of their letters but wanted them to be back in their rightful hands.

image copyrightNorma Beasley
image captionBob and Norma Beasley wrote many letters to each other during their courtship

Norma Beasley, nee Hall, had indeed been an 18-year-old woman who met Bob Beasley on the Woolwich Ferry in the 1940s. Impressed by his banter, they started out as friends before the relationship eventually developed into long-time love.

Now aged 88 and living in Lincoln, she had no idea the letters the sweethearts had written while she was living at her parents' home and Bob was on military service overseas were even still in existence.

She was shocked to receive Kim's letter, especially as Bob had died just a few months previously in December 2018.

She hurriedly wrote back, delighted that the letters were coming home and astonished they were still in the original shoebox.

Norma told the BBC the couple married soon after Bob returned from his tour of the Middle East and Egypt and moved to the village of Iver in Buckinghamshire in 1951. Bob worked in carpentry with a specialism in building aeroplanes, while Norma became an office worker. They had five children and six great-grandchildren. She recalled their early exchanges.

"We would write to each other - first as friends - but then it became something more. He'd tell me about his life and I'd tell him what was happening at home. I don't think my life was as interesting as his out in Egypt.

"I didn't even like writing letters but I would write to him every week. I used to send him a magazine every week."

image captionThe couple would share what was going on in their lives

However, although she's pleased the letters are back in her possession, she admitted she can't yet face opening the envelopes and love notes without Bob there.

"The letters are still in the original wrappings I put them them in. I can't read them just yet."

Norma said she had left the letters at her parents' home but had no idea how they had got all the way to Somerset via Aldershot. She presumed her parents had left the letters behind accidentally when they moved from Kent to Christchurch in Dorset.

"Maybe Mum didn't take them and whoever bought the bungalow kept the letters and moved about. I just don't know - it's a mystery.

"I thought they had gone forever."

But that's not the end of the tale - Kim and Norma have exchanged telephone numbers and plan to keep in touch.

image copyrightNorma Beasley
image captionThe letters have been returned to Norma although she is still waiting for the right moment to look through them

Kim told the romantics keeping an eye on her Facebook page that she spoke to Norma for the first time in August, describing her as a "wonderfully warm lady, with a lovely laugh".

They'll even continue to write letters to each other, with Kim adding: "There's a message here... in this age of electronic communication, write to your loved ones - on paper, snail mail - just once in a while."

Illustrations by Katie Horwich

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